That IS a great song, J, and double appropriate due to this pursuer-distancer tango our spouses have perfected I am so glad to hear you say you plan to enjoy the holidays with your friends and family no matter what your W decides to do. She might decide to put on a good false face of togetherness as a front for your families. Or...not. No predicting!
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17