Angela, don’t let H’s moods affect you. It is too bad that he unleashed on the kids too.

I know what you mean by not noticing your H becoming angry gradually. My H had these outbursts of anger sometimes, when he was doing the home projects and something didn’t go the way he wanted. He apologized afterwards. In the last few years he started to show some anger in other things. I noticed, but thought it was related to the stress he was having when he didn’t have work. Now I know that it was part of depression, his low self-esteem and unhappiness.

Take care of yourself.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state