don't be surprised....she will most likely do her own thing. There were things that I was SO SURE that would "change her mind" or make her "realize a few things".
Didn't happen....or....it did happen but she didn't let on.
Just be prepared.
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13