Left Behind on the Left Coast V: I Will Survive

[labug]

2 chiquitos gave you some very good advice. She's wise beyond her years.

Now I'm going to tap you with a 2x4, lovingly.

To her, I'm still the one who is responsible for all the bad things in her life. I think she blames me for her current financial state and maybe even her illness.

Step away from the victim stance. She can blame you for the Lindbergh kidnapping (anybody get that reference) but you know the truth, you know you. Taking all that stuff in is like handing your power to her.

What she's doing is more about her needs and her "stuff" for lack of a better word, than it is about you. As vero said, don't get sucked into that.

Stand tall, be proud and clean YOUR lens everyday. (sometimes I have to clean mine more than once a day but hey...)

Let her worry about hers.