Ugh. The a$$ version of your H sounds just a bit self-absorbed and delusional . . . on so many levels. Good for you for refraining from impolitely telling him to leave - I am sure that was an act of olympic strength. I will keep my fingers crossed that you get a better version of H tonight.

BTW, do you notice any correlation to your behavior? i.e., does the a$$ version come out under certain circumstances depending on how detached you are? Or is it just all about him and where he is at the moment?


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14