Aiming for the PMA of a glow worm....

[Not Quitting]

H turned up tonight - eventually. He spent some time on the computer with S13, then when S13 came off to get ready for bed H stayed on the computer accessing the cell phone bill (we're staying on our current family plan until the contract expires at the end of this month) and calculating his share and mine.

After our son went to bed, H hung around and chatted. He felt the need last night, even before our son went off to bed, to chat mostly about his latest weekend trip with OW. Who cares . He then switched to moaning and whinging about his lack of money - seriously . He's just spent over an hour going on about a weekend away, then he's whining about having to pay rent, his Lodge fees, his Legion fees, his CC bill, etc, etc, etc. And whining about having to go home and count and roll the change in his change box so that he can pay me his share of our debt settlement payment which is due next week and this week's child support payment. And then, when he leaves, he calls a cab instead of using his prepaid bus pass and taking the bus

And of course he had to make some comment about my dad and bring up OW more than once - two shots at making things uncomfortable. I just wanted to tell him to go away very impolitely. It was the a$$ version that turned up last night.

He's coming over again tonight - making up for last Sunday when he was away and this coming Sunday when he refuses to do a "family" thing and come to Santa Claus parade with us. I'm really hoping that it is the nicer version of H that turns up today - don't know if I can take the a$$ version two days in a row. I might not be able to keep from telling him to go away impolitely.