WR, I'm glad he remembered his son's birthday. His behavior yesterday was a bit strange.
He may have opened the attachment in read only format. I've done that myself and then had to take a few extra steps to change it where I can edit it. I wouldn't worry about it. If he can't go in to update it, he can ask someone to assist him or if he were rational, he could very well you in a nice tone.
At this point, nothing you say or do will be right w/him. You did what you did out of the goodness of your heart...let his oddball behavior go.
As for the money, I'm not surprised he didn't address it. He's not going to. Now, you need to move forward and leave the financial stuff in your lawyer's hands. Your h isn't going to work w/you on catching up w/support or returning the money from the check unless he is legally forced to do so.
I'm very sorry he's acting this way. The only people he is hurting are his sons. The damage he's doing will only hurt him in the long run because your sons, as they mature into young adults will lose all respect for him.
WR, hang in there. Make sure you make copies of your emails requesting the funds for your lawyer. Continue to be the wonderful person that you are.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
