Thanks TTD and GALbaby. It really is a strange experience to be in at the moment. Want to feel angry, but I don't know what to be angry at. What to feel sad, but don't know what to feel sad at. I suppose it is such a relief to be right. Not that we go through our new found journey wanting to be right either. But as you said GALbaby, everything about my sitch just didn't add up. Everything pointed to an affair. At least now I feel comfortable in a way knowing this is what happened. I really feel like ringing up the family and friends and say "I told you so", but I won't. I am still continuing my journey to becoming a better me. I won't contact anyone, I won't tell the world about the affair. Seriously, I doubt she is going to tell me at all. The biggest hurdle she is now going to go through is her sister. She lied to her sister and told her she wasn't haven't an affair. Her sister won't put up with that. I also wonder how my boys are going to deal with it. I know I will be home in 4 weeks, but I hope I can be of some help to them. I hope the family doesn't make it sound like it was a valid reason for their Mum to do this.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
