Well the news is I have finally found out the W is in an affair with the other woman. How do I know? Well this morning I had this horrible gut feeling that I needed to check her facebook page. Yes I know, DB 101, don't do it. 2 x 4's come and get me. Well there was a personal message from the W to the best friend in another state. The W stated that she is going to tell the truth if asked, and her Mum asked her on the way home from the sons 21st if she was in a relationship with this woman. The W told the best friend that she then told her Mum yes.
So while nothing really changes for me, I have a sense of relief knowing that in the back of my mind everything pointed to an affair, and it has been true.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.