Chris, I too felt like it seemed others on this forum had been married for much longer before this happened, but I soon noticed there are plenty of relative "newlyweds" here as well. You're not alone! Accuray's post contains some great advice.
M: 26 H: 30 no kids M: 4 T: 6
BD / I moved out of in-laws: 10/9/13 Changes mind from divorce to MC (never went): 10/15 Conflicted/ambivalent but more positive: 10/26 Doesn't know what he wants: 11/7