And for what it is worth, your story is heartbreaking. If you have the patience, your wife does sound like she is possibly going through MLC or something. But either way, you will need a lot of patience. As they are also reminding me, we are in the early stages.
_________________________ Me: 37 W: 37 M: 11 D:5 S:2 IDLYA, W removed rings, BD 07/13 EA/Fantasy (PA?) confirmed 12/13 W moved out 05/14