Yeah K......no.

You've had a lot of contact with her lately.... I believe you said a day or so ago that you called her about more mail and she didn't answer....

Time to give her space for a while.

If she had her card sent to house instead of her parents house its her responsibility to inquire as she should know when to expect it.

As 2stubborn said, go to the event with friends or solo.
I wouldn't send the email to her.
Next time you talk to her you can tell her about the event and how great it was and maybe she'll wish she was in contact with you more to find out about these things.
I'd say Let her be the one to contact you next, unless its an emergency/very important matter.


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope