WR, I think you stated things quite plainly and he should be able to read between the lines about the resume. As for the over due funds...don't hold your breath on that. This may need to be resolved via the legal system.
I'm Catholic and you would not have any problems w/the church as you are not the one that left the marriage...your h did. Your priest may be right about your h trying to return at some point. Many of them will attempt to reconcile, more so around the holidays and then fly the coop again in late winter/early spring. I, too, have been cautioned that my xh will want to return, now more than ever, since his wife/ow passed away in September...but I know him entirely too well and he would never ask because he knows what the answer will be. It's less work to for him to keep moving along the bumpy road of life than to actually do the hard work.
If he should want to come home, I would be very cautious in how I handled that. He would have to prove to you that he's wanting to be a part of the marriage 100% and not just be providing lip service on the subject. It's very difficult to have them return home too soon and then leave again.
For now, leave him in God's hands.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
