I sometimes thing SHAME is what drives this whole thing we call MLC. I think these men and women have a deep-seated shame about being who are they are
I concur! I believe this is why they seek new friends, pull away from their family, siblings, and people with whom they work.
It is about their self -esteem. Are they where they want to be in life? Is this what I want from here on? I don't have what I thought I'd have by now...
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay