Jack is not on the boards at the moment. He has some personal issues he is dealing w/that I am not at liberty to post here.
He is and his wife are reconciled and appear to be doing fine. The personal issues are not related to his reconciliation w/his wife.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.