Make sure to give yourself time before expressing an ultimatum, once it is said, it's out there. She may need more time, maybe a little, maybe a lot, but it is your choice to give more time or not, it sure isn't easy.

I remember being emotional and saying F this and it wasn't fair or worth it, but it was, it was just my emotions talking.

Give yourself some time. Do what you need to for you, I wont disagree with that.

M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy