GUILT IS IT A GOOD SIGN?

[Ambivalent]

Blab away...that's what it's for! As for the getting his info from happy divorces...anyone that's had a divorce, who really loved their spouse, ( and wasn't beaten, tortured, addictive issues ) is lying.

I bet you most would say they wished it worked out. My response...thinking about Rollercoaster , would be:

" yeah they say they're happy, but you know that's part of the misery loves company thing... Making things work out is much more satisfying in the long and short run. " But you already knew that..."

I don't see how you are most of his problems, for he moved out in April...his problems have all gone away right?

So the divorce is for what ? Yup , he's still confused.