How to convince resistant LD wife?

[Ambivalent]

Oh and Mr.B. He's using Viagra on a regular basis. It's in his car, not his medicine cabinet. Well it could be there too, that I don't know.

So I don't believe I'm mind reading as much as you would assume, I'm just connecting all the dots.

He is seeking, he is using V. he has put out personal profiles with dating/relationships/ 30-50, singles as his "interests".

Please, it is a high probability and I'm not going to try and deceive myself. That would be worse than just dealing with the circumstantial evidence. Also , EVERYTHING I read says that it is part of the MLC. So , lets move past the confront thing. I have. I'm not in any hurry to do it, I don't feel the need to do it. And if I bring up the possibility when writing about things, it is just part of what may be going on

I need to deal with it this way for now. It allows me to accept a situation and not be whacked later. He used a prostitute 10 years ago, and lied about it. This should not be a surprise that he is looking to have sex now. He has been without sex since a bit before he left. He's horny, come on!