subguy, with cheating comes a lost of trust that carries on to future relationships. I cant trust anyone.
that said, i cant speak from your perspective, so i cant say which is worse.
Agreed about the trust issues, I have them as well... did she cheat, will the new one cheat, will the new one leave and off to the races we go lol. Really it's about me and not the new person (when that happens).
Pretty much suxx all the way around, I really don't think that one is worse than the other, just different areas of suckiness.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
