How to convince resistant LD wife?

[Ambivalent]

Well, that wouldn't keep me from wanting more. But then again, I'm HD.

Uh, don't think so...I'm not his object of desire...yet! >:}

Remember he left, not I. He has to go through what he needs, and I'm NOT one of his needs.

Handjobs, erotic massage, dry humping, cuddling, hands under clothes, or various mild kinks, role play. I could keep myself busy all day with stuff that's safe before I even got to the other stuff. But then again, I'm HD with endless fantasies.

Remember he doesn't desire me? And if we even got close to this, he would want all the way!

Yes, do that for yourself, not so much for him. I would more admire my wife if I saw that she wanted to feel sexy for herself, and would therefore always wear something appealing. It can be seen as less sexy if you wear something appealing ONLY when you want results in bed. That would play into his feeling manipulated. Better to have him imagine you as going to bed in something sexy even when he is not there to appreciate it!
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Ha! Well he wouldn't see me in it anyways, never here at night!

Better than nothing.

Yes it is, and I will follow HIS lead. Anything else could be perceived as desperate or pursuing. NOT GONNA HAPPEN !

Yes, do that for yourself, not so much for him. I would more admire my wife if I saw that she wanted to feel sexy for herself, and would therefore always wear something appealing.

I need to do this for me, I have to boost my own sense of self.