Wife says she wants to leave

[S4tk]

I understand that the blame is not all mine. But the more and more i look at it, i realize that i have definately not been the best husband.

CC,

How difficult would it be for you to say, "I have not been a good husband," instead of what you said? I am trying to own my part in my own situation, and I think reality can be our friend. I have been practicing telling myself the hard truth.

"Not been the best" simply means that you won't win H of the year. But I think we are talking about something different...negligence, selfishness, avoidance...things that drive our W's into other arms, or at least into hopelessness.

I'm rooting for you. Good luck.