You said, "Frankly I think we can make it." Folks around here talk about a positive mental attitude (PMA) a lot. I think you're already half way there. Give us some more background about your situation, if you are up for it.
s4tk
_________________________ Me: 37 W: 37 M: 11 D:5 S:2 IDLYA, W removed rings, BD 07/13 EA/Fantasy (PA?) confirmed 12/13 W moved out 05/14