GUILT IS IT A GOOD SIGN?

[Ambivalent]

Lois

I've seen this with my H. Times when he has felt overwhelmed with guilt are the times when he does really, really damaging stuff--like inviting the OW to live with him.

I could see this ! The more they feel the guilt the more they try to assuage it.

I suggest getting comfortable with YOU. Predict what you can do in the future with your sitch.

Make yourself the best YOU EVER!!! And, whatever gets thrown your way, then you can handle it.

I so agree. I'm getting there... everyday I feel a bit of myself return, and even someone who is a bit more daring.

Losing weight has given me a gift I've needed for awhile. A bit more confidence. I walk taller , oh the heels help! Shoulders back, chin up.

I believe the whole process is fascinating. I'm going to make it, one way or another.

Now back to the guilt...I believe the better I get, and more comfortable I am, hopefully he will be able to get through his process and grow from it.

I am starting to feel a bit sorry for him. The agony of not knowing who he is , and the guilt and sadness he's feeling.

Remorse is a good topic as well. Wonder how that is exhibited covertly? Hmmmm.....