No, I haven't talked with a L yet, but I've given that a lot of thought over the past couple of weeks.
And, believe me, I'm weighing the pros and cons of in-home separation. It's not something I take lightly. I do believe that I am in a place where I can keep my expectations at zero. Of course, what I believe and what would be reality may well turn out to be very different. It is an option, however. One that we may need to consider.