Wife said she was done! House sold, Moving forward

[Maritimer]

Last night I attended a support group for single parents. It was good to see some local people that are going through the same feelings as me. I was only male there, felt a bit weird about that. It does that make question If am weak by wanting to get as much help as I can to move forward. Most advice I get from my married buddies is to hook up with as many ladies possible & that would build confidence and forget about the W. I trust their judgment in engines & mechanics but not in love.

Just noticed that my W is using her maiden name with her work Email. That takes effort as she works for a big company. It did sting me to see that, were not divorced yet but all signs are pointing that way. This Dec will be a year and I am dreading getting any legal papers. What else can I do?