Originally Posted By: Ambivalent
I will try to think sexual thought the next time I'm around him. That and thongs might subliminally exude my sexuality. I just don't want to come off as trying too hard.


Sounds good. As a first step, just showing a lot of energy and optimism is sexy (at least I would think so).

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Or that I'm desperate. Also, if he's been doing what I believe he's been doing , it isn't safe for me.

Well, there's a lot you can do without doing anything risky. But you should be firm about your boundaries.

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Since you ARE a man. How would you interpret it when he sneaks body glances, (he's an a-s man) is that attraction ? Or is he just looking?

Sounds like attraction to me. I check out my wife the same way even though I know nothing is going to happen. It's a good sign.