Yes, you are hurt and angry. But you have to be the better person here. At the very least, it would NOT look good for you in D court to be seen as vindictive, and this little resume thing could be spun up into that pretty easily, imo.
These little things add up to a big picture. Keep your focus on the big picture please. Let these little things go, what do you want YOUR picture of you to be?
I'll just re-quote job, she has it perfect (naturally):
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I would send the resume to him and advise him that it will be his responsibility to maintain an electronic copy of his resume from this day forward. After you send it to him, delete the resume on your hard drive. Now, if you really aren't sure about deleting it, put it on a thumb drive and store it somewhere safe...accommodate him once and after that, he is on his own.
I know how you feel, but you don't want to lower yourself to his level. Show him you are the kinder, gentler person than he is, i.e., lead by example. Sometimes a little kindness will go a long way in getting what you want later.
Just my 2.5 cents (US)
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
