Originally Posted By: sthelen
Nobody knows what the future holds, divorce isn't permanent. If we are meant to be we will find our way back together after he works through his confusion or whatever is going on in his head. I'm not waiting for that to happen NOW. NOW is not the time for us, that is clear. He has too much he needs to work on within himself...and I'm actually really enjoying working on myself and discovering I'm pretty strong and independent. I'm actually excited about returning to work. smile

Great place to be sthelen and the work you have done really shows up here! Congratulations on that....

For whatever reason this really resonated with me today. Thanks for continuing to post about your situation.


Me-48,W-51
M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork