Weirdest thing after the draining barrage of emotions last night was that W went out to the store to get some things for work and when she came back, she talked to me like all was good and smiled at me like she hasn't in over a week. When I turned in to bed, instead of stopping her texting/FBing, she was showing me things and telling me what she was looking at. We watched a bball game together on TV, talking the whole time, until we both went to sleep. I guess she just needed to get that stuff out last night.
Not weird at all in the world of MLC....
Pretty common actually.
Some of the most venomous spew ever, has been forgotten within hours.
That is why I say that no single interaction will either make or break you. And your marriage will NOT hinge on any single interaction...
That is also why it is imperative that you protect yourself, and your children from this...
Also, it doesn't mean that her feelings aren't valid either. It is more of a...this is how she is feeling AT THAT MOMENT though, rather than her deepest truth on the matter...
I posted the other day about how Women in MLC tend to not lash out as much, yet when they do ?
Yea, buckle down, cause they go for the throat pretty quickly.
She knows the exact words, that can bring you to your knees...quickly
You handled things extremely well...for a noob
Don't bring any of this up again....
Sit on your responses for now, and think about how you could have responded differently, cause you WILL hear most of this again down the road....
