backtracking a little, i knew exactly what G meant, its all good. i got the joke and i was just taking it to the next step.

i get woman-speak, i can also read people. and G's one of the good ones.

i struggle catching sarcasm though, although i'm great at dishing it out. and it baffles me as to why this is.


my friend had always been socially awkward, I had first met him in college and he proceeded to alienate himself from everyone. But i saw his intentions were good, he just never had friends and had a faulty filter.

for the most part he was a good person, so his actions caught me by surprise. i never expected him to do anything like this.

he never had a girlfriend, but was always so desperate to get one. and his wife was a sweet woman. he got lucky with her.

but his family always had this air of entitlement about them. they werent rich or fancy, but there was always this underlying sense that they saw themselves above the rest of us, the lowly gentiles.


why people cheat, and how they can justify it, i dont know. my x's previous boyfriend was a serial cheater, and she had found out later and was devastated by it, so i was surprised she would do this to me knowing what it feels like.

my x has a victim mentality, my friend has a sense of entitlement mentality.


"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".