The Red Pill aka The Leap of Faith

[Mach1]

j,

I know how hard it is to hear this...

I want you to take a few minutes to re-read these, and see how script this actually is....

She definitely received her MLC playbook...

She said:
-I don't even know who you are anymore.

Script, she needs to convince herself of this, to justify her exit plan...

-Other people have commented about how happy and friendly you are.

That is good..

-Its all a big F-ing show.

For who...her ? You ???

Sounds like projection to me..

-You never wanted to go to church or Sunday school before.

She is going to Divorce you, because you decided to go to church.....hmmm

-I have no connection to you. Physical or emotional.

Script

-Our son needs counseling because of what he's heard

It will be a good idea for BOTH of your boys to get some counseling after this...

-You have no idea what you've done to him. S12

She doesn't either, yet making that statement makes her sound more involved...

-I can't live like this anymore.

I agree with her, and one again.....script

-It's a little too late to change.

For who once again....her ?

She already said that you have changed...

-You've done a 360 in everything, people don't just change like that.

This is the funniest comment of all....

She is saying that you HAVE changed, then said that people don't change, then said AGAIN that you had, BUT they won't last...

So...

A "360" would indicate that you have come full circle...yes ?

Which is it ?

-I'm not leaving this house.

Script....she fears judgement from others, and the perception is, that IF she leaves, she is wrong....

-I'll leave and the children will go with me, because they will choose me.

I thought she said she WASN'T leaving....which is it ?

And let her think what she wants....DO NOT use those boys as pawns in this mess...

-The kids even see that you are different.

Your relationship with them, is your relationship with them.

Once again, they are not pawns in this....

-You're not even the person I met 20 years ago.

I would hope not....geesh

-I didn't mind being a single mother, I don't mind doing for my kids.

Yes she does....when it isn't convenient she does....

-You've never cared before, why now.
-I know you said this was like a bomb dropped on you, but people don't just change.
-It's just because you are medicated. If you think it's not, you're crazy.
-You're big mouth has hurt your son in ways you don't understand.

Script, projection. blah, blah,blah.....

-It's no wonder I went for an emotional affair. You've never been there for me emotionally.


-S12 said there's no way I could have a boyfriend, because your always with us

So which is it ????

She has a boyfriend ?

Or she doesn't ???

-What do you want me to do? About 10 times
-You've said you want me to try. I don't want to. How are you supposed to get back something that took 10 years to go away.

More script, projection, MLC blah blah blah...

Look J, the fallout from yesterday's events found you, and you handled it pretty well...

She is pissed because you aren't financing "Fantasy Camp" anymore...

I will post more later....

I just want you to see this for what it is...