jp, it's hard but I am going to stop looking to him for little reassurances along the way.
Something my therapist and I talk about was that I seemed to say things to get reassurances from my W. That I would fish for them until I got something. Then for me it would last a while, but then I would be right back looking for more. It is not healthy to look for reassurances from others, not saying that someone giving reassurance at certain time for comfort isn't nice. For me it was almost compulsive/ codependent. Not saying you are looking for them like I do, just sharing.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
