The question is...why do some spouses cheat while others don't? Is it that they are just sub-standard immoral human beings...I doubt it. Do they have holes in their moral sensibilities? Or could any of us do this in the right circumstances? I know everyone will scream "I could never do that" but human beings are incredible at legitimizing what we want as being right... and not just cheating spouses. I remember a Pastor of mine once told me "the one thing I've learned in this job is that really good people can do some really bad things". Just thinking out loud here...