Tad, Seeking Answers had a stroke back in the spring and is recovering at home these days. Cat posted an update on her several weeks ago.
Heartsblessing is still trucking the highways and hasn't posted here for a long time. I believe her marriage has been restored.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.