I would send the resume to him and advise him that it will be his responsibility to maintain an electronic copy of his resume from this day forward. After you send it to him, delete the resume on your hard drive. Now, if you really aren't sure about deleting it, put it on a thumb drive and store it somewhere safe...accommodate him once and after that, he is on his own.
I know how you feel, but you don't want to lower yourself to his level. Show him you are the kinder, gentler person than he is, i.e., lead by example. Sometimes a little kindness will go a long way in getting what you want later.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
