GUILT IS IT A GOOD SIGN?

[Ambivalent]

I thought I'd start a thread that wasn't about my life, but could possibly lead to insight for us all.

If a spouse is open about their guilt, is this a good sign, or does it make any difference?

When I say open I mean speaks about their guilt.

For anger and lashing out at a spouse is a covert expression of guilt.

Have any of those who have spoken guilt v.s. acted out reconciled? Who is more likely to return, the monster or the nice guy?

Taawk amongst yourselves...