A bunch of us were hanging out around the water cooler, so to speak and my 45 year old boss was joking that 22 yr new kid asked if he could be in his band. The 22yr old needed a bass player thought my 45yr old boss would totally be able to rock out with them.
My boss jokely went on and on about how his wife would murder him if he joined a band. That he has 3 young kids and works 70 hrs a week and if he decided to take another 3 hrs a week away from the family for band practice - she would murder him.
What was so strange to me was that one of my XH reasons for leaving was that I didnt allow him enough time for his hobbies, like mountain biking. We had a D3 and D1 at the time. Once I found this program I didnt tell him again how insane that thinking was.
To me I feel like his crazy thinking is now flashing in neon "Crazy" while my side of the street is clean as whistle because I didnt react.
When I orginally reacted to his crazy talk it was harder to see who the crazy one was.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
