His response was that he thinks this is the best thing in the long run. Well that's ok for him then.....glad he's decided he'll be happy in the future! I didn't respond to this.
But he's not happy is he. He's not happy, he's just trying to find anything to make himself feel better. He's not considering the consequences. He just knows that life will be better without being with me.
Glad you went to the mtg and found it helpful. Keep coming back.
Don't even try to figure out what he's thinking or why. Not yours to do. He may be happy, he may not be happy but the real question is, would you want to be him? A great acronym that I use with myself a lot is, Q-Tip-quit taking it personally.
Just keep working on you.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
