THINK LIKE HARE MOVE LIKE A TORTOISE

[Ambivalent]

Gotcha.

When the we had the BD night, I asked if we should seek counseling and he thought it would be a good idea...well by the second two hour session he decided "he wasn't sure if he wanted to work on the marriage, but he wanted individual counseling.".

So far he has been to one session, he was given homework and at the time was so excited he took me out to lunch to share.

Lot's of when we's , we should's, if we's, but hasn't gone back as far as I know.

So I guess that was lip service. I just don't see someone in Replay actually going to a doctor successfully, for if they are "experimenting" how do they reconcile their behavior, especially if they have a conscience ? I noticed he said he liked the guy, he wasn't judgmental . I believe that statement was telling, for he is judging himself.