So sorry you had to go through all that, J. And so sorry for your son.

It really is time to lovingly let her go, sweetie.

Your children need you right now. And you need to get to a good strong place for them and yourself.

You are given an amazing opportunity here to show your sons how to navigate through life's tough stuff with strength and courage. Show them well.

They are looking to you right now. You are their touchstone. If you are ok, they will be, too.

Hang in there. You will get through this.

(((HUGS)))