"lip service".... when h told me he was going to work on our relationship, because I asked him too.... then he never followed through. VERY UPSET over that... I just keep it up as a reminder to watch out if it should ever happen again.
The difference will be... he will ask for us to work on it vs. me asking...(that was lip service).
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M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)