He took his pillow to OWs last night after the whole car situation. Bleh. I left him a note in the bathroom letting him know it made me sad that he took his pillow, but that this is still his home and his bed when he wants it to be.
We managed to have an amiable trip to the grocery store today. I mentioned to him that is seemed like he was trying extra hard not to make eye contact with me. He shrugged and agreed. I didn't bother to ask WHY? ...I finally picked up that pointer. I just made the observation and left it at that. Later in the day when I went to bring him some lunch I got deliberate eye contact and even a smile. So I guess I was on to something there.
He has started rinsing out his dishes after he eats... something I have asked for him to do on and off for over a decade, now I didn't even have to ask and he starts doing it. Oh this MLC stuff is a trip. I did make sure to let him know I appreciate it, even though I find myself questioning his motivation.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
