Good I am glad you are going to a group. I have found just getting out of the house to do whatever has been helpful because it is more difficult to discuss sitch with anyone new I am forced to think of other topics of conversation keepping me focused on more positive things.
I don't know how long hang in there. I have decided that after the holiday's if I don't hear anything I may reach out softly, but I don't want to poke the bear....if you know what I mean. Have a great week! IvaC