OH JFun I'm so so sorry you had to go through that with S12 within ear shot......your poor boy. I'm sure he is in a better place because dad had him and reassured him. You did so, so great dad!
As to the conversation with your wife....WOW. I guess she's been needing to get that out for a while and you handled it like a champ. DBing at it's best! She has to lash out at you to validate her feelings. You proved her wrong which set her off more, for now, but it'll give her food for thought as her process continues.
You're probably exhausted....have a good night and take care.
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR