Good point about my perception that's just the way I look at it now since there's no communication with w. As for what have I done, I quit drinking about two and a half months ago and to be honest don't miss it a bit. Considering all the stress I've been under, I know some of that stress is self inflicted, not wanting a drink or having a drink is outstanding.
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