Just reading some other threads and some how I get the impression that a lot of this journey the lbs is on is to help cope with the d without resentment or bitterness and being able to walk away, not so much repair the m, if it happens great.
M 47 W 38 My S 21 Her S 17 Our S 8 M 8 DB 9/5/13
"You don't know how strong you are until strength Is all you have" Bob Marley