JFun my H bounced the mortgage payment to "get my attention and because he sleeps on a cot on the floor". Ummmmmmmmm that is your kids child support and it goes directly to the roof over their head. Not one penny goes to me but he insists that I don't get one more cent until I stop having so much fun and take the process seriously and stop stalling. I haven't seen any money for my boys since the beginning of September. I work to pay as much as I can and my parents come by with groceries so we can eat. He doesn't care. He doesn't talk to me, other than two angry texts last week about a box of his stuff I gave him and how I chNged the pw on the iTunes acct, so he has no concern for anything in re to the boys. They're all irresponsible. Irrational. Erratic crazy!!!!! It's beyond any of our scope how they can so easily disconnect from their own kids, whatever don't love me, but the kids!?!?! It's hard. So hard. Do whatever you have to to protect them. Come here to vent and thin things through. I'm a newbie but there are so many wise, caring people here.....they'll guide you.
Hope it gets better for you soon jfun. I'm cheering you on.
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
