Mach-Removing her from the equation=taking care of myself and my sons. Easy answer. I am doing this simply for that reason. How she reacts is irrelevant.
True grittier-The anger is coming from my disbelief at how irresponsible she's been when it comes to house, car, insurance, etc. These are things that our children need. If she let the cable bill lapse because she hates paying so much for TV, OK. Not the car that she drives the kids to school in every day or the house we are all so attached to. These things are nonnegotiable. I am past her loving me and ever falling in love with me. I'm just appalled at how much she has seemingly checked out on all responsibility and life in general.
I seek advice because I know folks here have been there and done that. I also see this as a potential explosion. How do I ask her about having an account with someone else's name attached to it? That cannot end well.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13
