I still need to talk with my DB coach and work on an email setting out the boundaries to send to H. I know that I cant do it in person because he will try to influence my decision and make me second guess myself. I feel stronger internally, but I know that it going to be really tough to set the limitations and dig my heals in because H is not going to like it. I hate to do it because I loved last night, I love being a family. BOO.