I agree with the others. What your W texted wasn't bad at all. In fact, in my case, when my W STARTED to name me in our texts, I didn't like it because it sounded like the intimacy of us just knowing it was each other was gone.

Your overall response was a passive aggressive.

I think you are so used to your W being mean to you that even when she's actually civil, your defenses automatically go up.

A simple "will do" and "thank you" will be fine in these cases.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER